A young widow is being ridiculed by both her in-laws and netizens after she was caught with a man a week after her husband was buried.
The now-viral video was shared on Crime Watch Zimbabwe, in which she was caught with another man red-handed.
The video has managed to garner a lot of negative reactions towards the widow at how fast she moved on with her life.
Young Widow Ridiculed For Having Boyfriend A Week After Husband’s Burial
In the video, it seems like her in-laws caught her in bed with a man in her marital home. The family members started to ridicule the woman for moving on too fast after her husband’s death.
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To this, the woman shared that she had urges for intimacy ever since her husband died, and she acted upon them. The family went on to say that she should have opened up to them about her problems. To this, the woman questioned whether she should have eased her urges with their husband and her late husband’s brothers.
The woman was defiant that her decision to get a boyfriend was the right one for her. She also accused the relatives of hitting her when they caught her during the incident.
Tradition’s Stance On Widows And Widowers
Our tradition usually frowns upon women who move on too fast after being widowed compared to men. Usually, someone is given a year to be in bereavement when their partner dies.
After this period, the widow is then traditionally cleansed and given the go-ahead to find a new companion. While some men take less time to grieve and society stands with them, women get the short end of the stick and are faced with ridicule.
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Zimbabwe reacts
Many Zimbabweans have concluded that the woman was already cheating when her husband died. Below are some of the comments from the post:
@SamapendaHenry
That was too early akagara anacho chikomba
@ChiefZelizwe
Akagara Ari mu game hake it’s an eye opener. Don’t dedicate your entire self to these women, most of them ain’t loyal. That’s why our fathers were polygamous it helped balance out these things while achieving the greater goal of pro creating another generation and legacy.
@Saulmakosa
Poverty is leading women to find a boyfriend so soon after the husband has passed , this happens especially if the woman was a housewife
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